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  گروه سرگرمی و تفریحی  365 روز

يكي از روزهاي سال اول دبيرستان بود. من از مدرسه به خانه بر مي گشتم كه يكي از بچه هاي كلاس را ديدم. اسمش مارك بود و انگار همه‌ي كتابهايش را با خود به خانه مي برد.

با خودم گفتم: 'كي اين همه كتاب رو آخر هفته به خانه مي بره. حتما ً اين پسر خيلي بي حالي است!'

 


ادامه مطلب
+ نوشته شده در  پنجشنبه نوزدهم اسفند 1389ساعت 20:59  توسط یزدانی | 
 

متدهاي نفوذ در دل استاد (برگه امتحاني)   در ضمن این خاطرات من نیست هر چند این وبلاگ اموزشیه ولی این متن هیچ جنبه اموزشی نداره و صرفا زنگ تفریحی است.


آخرين متدهاي روز جهان در زمينه ي نحوه ي محبت و نفوذ دانشجو به دل استاد (برگه ي امتحان):


اين جفنگيات مرسوم که در برگه ي امتحان مينويسند و از بيماري مادر تا اينکه اگر اين درس را نمره نياورم مشروطم ميشوم و ... هم، خيلي خز شده و هم، حتي يک بچه ي 5 ساله باور نميکند؛ چه برسد به يک دکتر! کمي نوآوري و خلاقيت داشته باشيد. جناب استاد به اندازه ي کافي خودش مشکلات و بدبختي دارد، ديگر نياز نيست شما با آن خط زيباي منحصر به فردتان يک صفحه ي آچار برايش از مشکلاتتان بگوييد. حالا باز اي کاش فقط يک نفر چنين خزعبلاتي مي نوشت. يکهو مي بيني از 30 نفر دانشجو، بيست و هشت نفر عينا نوشته اند که اگر اين درس را نمره نگيريم مشروطيم و مادرمان مريض است و پدرمان زندان است و فلان و بهمان. انگار اين مشکلات را هم از روي ديگر تقلب کرده اند.



ادامه مطلب
+ نوشته شده در  یکشنبه پانزدهم اسفند 1389ساعت 21:55  توسط یزدانی | 

باید و نبایدهای سه گانه در زندگی

 

 Three things in life that are never certain
  سه چیز در زندگی پایدار نیستند

 


 


ادامه مطلب
+ نوشته شده در  چهارشنبه دهم آذر 1389ساعت 8:38  توسط یزدانی | 

خیلی مسخره (والبته غم انگیزه)حتما بخونین
 
 
 






 







 

 

 



 

 

 



بزرگترین شاهکار ساخت و ساز قرن
 
 آيا تا به حال به شهرك شهيد محلاتي سري زده ايد؟ آيا بناي يادبود اين شهرك را از نزديك ديده ايد؟ آيا از خودتان پرسيده ايد كه چرا گنبد فلزي به اين بزرگي ساخته شده اما دو سال است كه ادامه فعاليت براي تكميل اين بنا متوقف شده است؟ آيا تركيب گنبد فلزي بزرگ و جرثقيل قرار گرفته در زمين اين بنا برايتان عجيب نبوده؟ اهالي شهرك شهيد محلاتي بي شك پاسخ اين سؤال ها را مي دانند. اما شايد هم محله اي هاي ديگر از آن بي خبر باشند. پس براي آنهايي كه اين گنبد را نديده اند بزرگ ترين طنز تصويري قرن را توضيح مي دهم. همان طور كه در عكس مي بينيد مقبره اي فلزي و بسيار بزرگ با اسكلتي كاملاً مدرن كه بي ترديد هزينه هنگفتي را در برداشته، ساخته شده است.
در عكس جرثقيل بزرگي هم ديده مي شود كه البته هيچ كدام از اينها وارونه نيست. وارونه ترين قسمت قصه ما اين است كه جرثقيل در كنار اسكلت  گنبد قرار ندارد. بلكه سازندگان باهوش اين بناي بزرگ ابتدا جرثقيل را در مركز گنبد قرار داده اند و بعد شروع به ساختن گنبد كرده اند همين طور كه گنبد اوج مي گرفته جرثقيل هم كم كم در آن حبس مي شده تا اينكه بالاخره يك روز ساخت اسكلت گنبد تمام مي شود و... . از اينجا به بعد چشمتان را ببنديد و به كمك قوه تخيلتان تصور كنيد. همه نفس راحتي مي كشند، فرياد شادي از نهاد كارگران و كارگزاران اين بنا بلند مي شود، همه به هم خسته نباشيد مي گويند، خيلي ها لبخند رضايت بر لب دارند و با آستين  پيراهنشان عرق پيشاني را خشك مي كنند. در ميان همهمه و فريادهاي شادي يكباره سكوتي سنگين حاكم مي شود. همه مات و مبهوت به گنبد و جرثقيل نگاه مي كنند. ضربان قلب كارفرماي پروژه كند مي شود. هيچ كس جرئت حرف زدن ندارد. در اين سكوت يك كارگر ساده با صداي بلند سؤالي مي پرسد: «حالا جرثقيل را چطور بيرون بياوريم؟» اين سؤال، سؤالي است كه حدود دو سال است كه هيچ كس نتوانسته به آن پاسخ دهد. بنده پيشنهاد مي كنم حالا كه اين بناي عظيم با صرف هزينه اي سنگين ساخته شده و هيچ كس راه حلي براي آن پيشنهاد نمي كند حداقل اين مكان را به كمدي ترين بناي تاريخ تبديل كنيم و از آن براي جذب توريست استفاده كرده و بليت بفروشيم. مطمئن باشيد افراد زيادي حاضرند براي انداختن عكس در كنار اين بنا پول خرج كنند
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مراحل آماده سازي مقبره الشهدا در حالي به پايان مي رسد كه دست اندركاران آن با اين معما مواجه شده اند كه چگونه مي توان جرثقيل به اين بزرگي را از گنبد ساخته شده بيرون كشيد

 
 

 

+ نوشته شده در  یکشنبه هفتم آذر 1389ساعت 8:24  توسط یزدانی | 
می خواستم زندگی کنم ، راهم را بستند
ستایش کردم ، گفتند خرافات است
عاشق شدم ، گفتند دروغ است
گریستم ، گفتند بهانه است
خندیدم ، گفتند دیوانه است
دنیا را نگه دارید ، می خواهم پیاده شوم !
دکتر علی شریعتی

 

 

بودن را به بیداری بگذرانیم که سالها به اجبار خواهیم خفت (دکتر شریعتی)

 

 
"خدایا چگونه زندگی کردن را به من بیاموز چگونه مردن را خود خواهم آموخت - دکتر شریعتی"

 

 

"انسان عبارت است از یک تردید. یک نوسان دائمی. هر کسی یک سراسیمگی بلاتکلیف است. (دکتر شریعتی)"

 

 

-"خداوندا من با تمام کوچکیم یک چیز از تو بیشتر دارم و آن هم خدای است که من دارم و تو نداری
دکتر شریعتی"

 

 

"خدایا هر که را عقل دادی ، چه ندادی؟ و هر که را عقل ندادی ، چه دادی؟؟؟
دکتر شریعتی"

 

 

 

+ نوشته شده در  جمعه بیست و هشتم آبان 1389ساعت 7:28  توسط یزدانی | 

It was time for a haircut. Lenny didn’t even have to look in the mirror. Even though he was going bald, he knew that he needed to cut his hair every two weeks.

He had a "tongue" of hair on the top of his head. His hair was thinning at the crown. He still had plenty of hair on the sides and back. It was what they call "salt and pepper," a mixture of gray hair and dark brown hair. It was only a few years, he figured, until the salt and pepper became just salt.

He never let his hair grow for more than two weeks. The longer it got, the worse it looked, he thought.

He spread a newspaper over the bathroom sink so that no hair went down the drain. He plugged in the clippers and started cutting his hair. He started at the back of his head, went to the sides, and finished on the top. Every minute or so, he had to clean the hair out of the blades with an old toothbrush.

Finished, he picked up a hand mirror to check out the back of his head. Everything looked okay. He carried the newspaper back out to the kitchen and shook the hair clippings into the trash can.

Then he took a shower.

+ نوشته شده در  یکشنبه بیست و سوم آبان 1389ساعت 11:0  توسط یزدانی | 

The Old Man and His Grandson

By Brothers Grimm
from Grimm's Fairy Tales

There was once a very old man, his eyes had become dim, his ears dull of hearing, his knees trembled, and when he sat at table he could hardly hold the spoon, and spilt the soup upon the table-cloth or it runs out of his mouth. His son and his son's wife were disgusted at this, so the old grandfather at last had to sit in the corner behind the stove, and they gave him his food in an earthenware bowl, and not even enough of it. And he looked towards the table with his eyes full of tears. Once his trembling hands could not hold the bowl, and it fell to the ground and broke. The young wife scolded him, but he said nothing and only cried. Then they brought him a wooden bowl.

They were once sitting when the little grandson of four years old began to gather together some bits of wood on the ground. 'What are you doing there?' asked the father. 'I am making a little trough,' answered the child, 'for father and mother to eat from it when I am big.'

The man and his wife looked at each other for a while, and began to cry. Then they took the old grandfather to the table, and from this time on always let him eat with them, and likewise said nothing if he spilt a little of anything.

Answer:

a)     What was the grandfather's problem?

b)     Why did his son and his daughter-in-law get angry?

c)     What did they give to the grand father?

d)     Why did his son and his daughter-in-law scold him?

e)     Why did the little grandson gather some bits of wood on the ground?

f)      What happened then?

 

                                                                                                                                 

 

 

 

+ نوشته شده در  جمعه بیستم فروردین 1389ساعت 19:21  توسط یزدانی | 

I LESSON 1 I

Words to Learn This Week

abandon

keen

jealous

tact

oath

vacant

hardship

gallant

data

unaccustomed

bachelor

qualify

 

 

 

1. Abandon / o'basndon / desert; leave without planning to come back; quit

a. When Roy abandoned his family, the police went looking for him.

b. The soldier could not abandon his friends who were hurt in battle.

c. Because Rose was poor, she had to abandon her idea of going to

college.

 

 


ادامه مطلب
+ نوشته شده در  سه شنبه دهم فروردین 1389ساعت 19:48  توسط یزدانی | 

He deals the cards as a meditation
And those he plays never suspect
He doesn't play for the money he wins
He doesn't play for respect
He deals the cards to find the answer
The sacred geometry of chance
The hidden low of a probable outcome
The numbers lead a dance

I know that the spades are swords of a soldier
I know that the clubs are weapons of war
I know that diamonds mean money for this art
But that's not the shape of my heart

He may play the jack of diamonds
He may lay the queen of spades
He may conceal a king in his hand
While the memory of it fades

I know that the spades are swords of a soldier
I know that the clubs are weapons of war
I know that diamonds mean money for this art
But that's not the shape of my heart     *2

And if I told you that I loved you
You'd maybe think there's something wrong
I'm not a man of too many faces
The mask I wear is one
Those who speak know nothing
And find out to their cost

+ نوشته شده در  یکشنبه هشتم فروردین 1389ساعت 12:12  توسط یزدانی | 

 

Bad Fruit: A Shoppers' Nightmare

Level: Easy to Medium

This is an oral communication activity appropriate for EFL learners in elementary/primary school. (It's optimal for grades 3-6). This game is designed for practicing "shopping" dialogues and vocabulary.

 


ادامه مطلب
+ نوشته شده در  یکشنبه بیست و پنجم بهمن 1388ساعت 23:43  توسط یزدانی | 
1- کنایه از مردن

2- از مسولیت شانه خالی کردن


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ادامه مطلب
+ نوشته شده در  شنبه بیست و چهارم بهمن 1388ساعت 11:4  توسط یزدانی | 

اصلاح به مجموعه کلماتی می گوییند که دارای معنای کلی هستند یعنی با معنا کردن تک تک کلمات

معنای آن بدست نمی آید.

 

 

 

Examples of idioms

 

 

1- After 80 years living, he finally kicked the bucket.

2- He always passes the buck and said it was my sister's fault.

3- He didn't bat an eyelash when I told him the bad news.

4- Albert had to grease the clerk's palm to get the signature.

5- Did I call you Richard? Sorry Robert, it was a slip of tongue.

 

 

  

 

  

 

 

 

 


ادامه مطلب
+ نوشته شده در  جمعه بیست و سوم بهمن 1388ساعت 18:59  توسط یزدانی | 

Tolerate comrade, the laughter can be heard

You will be live comrade, tolerate problems on the way

Pass the torrent, at the back of the moon is new life

I can hear someone is murmuring: freedom is near

Tolerate comrade; the world is in our fist

Tolerate comrade, the sun is behind us

Tolerate comrade, we both are alone

Tolerate comrade, we are about to arrive

If the world is all in darkness, hold the lantern

Come with me, there is little to arrive

Tolerate cold and snowy weather

Today is no time to sleep, we are all together, tolerate……. 

 

 

 

 

+ نوشته شده در  سه شنبه بیستم بهمن 1388ساعت 22:16  توسط یزدانی | 

B

·    "Barking dogs seldom bite."

  • ترجمه: «سگی که پارس می‌کند، به ندرت گاز می‌گیرد»
    • مترادف فارسی: «سگ لاینده، گیرنده نباشد»

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ادامه مطلب
+ نوشته شده در  سه شنبه بیستم بهمن 1388ساعت 22:9  توسط یزدانی | 
·    "A poor workman blames his tools."

  • ترجمه: «کارگر بی‌مهارت، ابزار کارش را مقصر می‌داند.»
    • مترادف فارسی: «عروس نمی‌توانست برقصد، می‌گفت زمین کج است.»یا " وقتی زمین سفت است ، گاو از چشم گاو می بیند ."

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ادامه مطلب
+ نوشته شده در  دوشنبه نوزدهم بهمن 1388ساعت 14:38  توسط یزدانی | 

1.                               Think positively. Focus on the beauty in everything.

2.                                                     2

Avoid people that are constantly complaining or angry. Stress can be contagious, so avoid transmitters. Understand that there is always a solution to a problem.

3.                                                     3

Avoid toxic people. Spend less time with people who try to guilt you into doing things or tell you that you're not good enough. Yes, even if they're family.

4.                                                     4

Stop feeling guilty. Guilt is a potent source of stress. Get rid of the source of guilt by behaving yourself; stop engaging in behaviors that make you feel guilty. Seek professional help, if necessary, but don't allow destructive behavior to escalate and sabotage your life and health.

5.                                                     5

Learn to prioritize. Make a list of tasks for the day. Organize the list by importance. Learn to be proactive and take care of things before they become a big problem. Time spent more productively means more free time to relax.

6.                                                     6

Make healthy food choices.

o                                Avoid excessive sugar found in granola bars, pastries or soda. Carbohydrates, such as pasta, convert easily to sugar. These can cause severe ups and downs and agitation, upsetting your body's ability to efficiently utilize energy.

o                                Avoid excessive coffee. Instead of regular coffee, switch to decaf or an herbal tea with little or no caffeine. Warm water will help you to relax.

o                                Eat fresh fruits, vegetables and whole grains that are free of refined sugar, such as apples, grapes, carrots, broccoli, brown rice or whole grain breads.

o                                Eat plenty of low-calorie protein, such as chicken, fish, whole grains, legumes, dark leafy vegetables or low-fat dairy. These proteins are a better source of energy.

o                                Take a multi-vitamin. Some vitamins relieve stress.

7.                                                     7

Exercise every day. This is the best known, scientifically proven way to significantly reduce stress. You'll be amazed at how much easier it is to overcome stress if you exercise regularly.

o                                Try at least thirty minutes per day of moderate activity.

o                                Walk in the park, woods or on a treadmill.

o                                Take the stairs instead of the elevator.

o                                Park a little further away from the entrance of a store.

o                                Ride a bike.

o                                Go swimming. Try your local pool, a nearby lake or a friend or relative's home.

o                                Increase your activity, once you've built endurance, if desired.

o                                You don't need to work out like a body builder or celebrity.

8.                                                     8

Find a quiet place when you are feeling overwhelmed.

o                                Draw a warm bath. Light candles around the tub, dim the lights, add bubbles or lavender, if desired.

o                                Lay on your bed or sofa. Play some soft music or nature CDs. Relax listening to ocean waves, waterfalls or birds.

o                                Read a good book. Curl up on the couch with a blanket and a cup of chamomile tea.

o                                Imagine a personal paradise. Close your eyes and envision a different setting. What do you see around you? Is there a breeze? What do you hear - birds or water? Imagine the calming sound of ocean waves reaching the shore. Enjoy a moment in your special place.

o                                Even the stall of a bathroom will work if you have no other place to go.

9.                                                     9

Download ebooks on relaxation. Use controlled breathing, muscle tensing and relaxing, affirmations (which become your own subliminal messages to your subconscious), and visualization to experience the full impact of total relaxation.

10.                                                10

Do yoga. It relaxes your body and clears your mind of the stress and rush of the day.

11.                                                11

Practice meditation. Remove all thoughts and emotions from your mind by concentrating on your breathing. It takes a little practice, but is very rewarding. Some Buddhist monks use this practice throughout their lives!

12.                                                12

Breathe more slowly. Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth. Inhale deeply, count to five, then exhale slowly, counting to five. Do this ten times to relax your muscles and nerves.

13.                                                13

Try a massage. Go to your local spa for a great massage.

14.                                                14

Lower your shoulders to help relax. Be more consciously aware of the tension that is quick to accumulate in your shoulders.

15.                                                15

Perform self-hypnosis. Focus on something, take a few deep breaths and let yourself become hypnotized. If you have trouble with self-hypnosis, go to a licensed hypnotherapist. Do not allow an amateur to try to hypnotize you. Beware of subliminal messages.

16.                                                16

Be calmed by water. Assemble a small fountain in your bedroom or yard. Walk near a beach or lake. The calming sounds of water are very soothing.

17.                                                17

Do activities or hobbies that relax you. Get your mind off the things that normally stress you out. You may just need a break every now and then. Go fishing, sew, sing, paint or take photographs.

o                                Try singing a song using numbers instead of words. This helps to distract you from stress to suddenly relax.

18.                                                18

Spend time with your pet. Cuddle or play with your pets. They'll love it and so will you. Talk to your pet about all the stress and anxiety you've been going through and you'll feel a lot better.

19.                                                19

Read a book or an article that makes you think. Read about a leader, such as Martin Luther King or Frankl's writings about the mind. Inspirational thoughts can lead to a more positive outlook on life and add new energy.

20.                                                20

Work! Although this may sound counteractive to your goal, procrastination never feels as good as having nothing to do. Get it done now and truly relax.

21.                                                21

Smile and laugh. Laughter is the best medicine. Rent, buy or see a hilarious movie. This is guaranteed to help. Smiling and laughing releases endorphins, which fights stress, helps to relax and reminds you that life is more than just work. Even if it feels strange at first, make it a point to smile more often.

22.                                                22

Change your ways If your problem includes something happening at home, then just count to ten, take deep breaths, don't yell, and just find the solution to the problem. If the problem is something you're doing, then change the way you act. Just listen to those around you to figure out and correct what is wrong.

23.                                                23

Listen to relaxing music does help!

24.                                                24

Go where it's quiet. chat online or read a book. stop thinking about things that make you stressed

+ نوشته شده در  دوشنبه نوزدهم بهمن 1388ساعت 10:12  توسط یزدانی | 

Alphabetical list of proverbs - A - K
 with an explanation where necessary 
 

Proverb

Explanation / Meaning

 Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

  When you are away from someone you love, you love them even more.

 Accidents will happen.

  Some unfortunate events must be accepted as inevitable.

 Actions speak louder than words.

  What a person actually does is more important that what they say they will do.

 Advice is cheap.

 

 Advice is least heeded when most needed.

  When a problem is serious, people often do not follow the advice given.

 Advisers run no risks.

 

 All cats are grey in the dark.

 People are undistinguished until they have made a name.

 All good things come to those who wait.

  Patience brings rewards.

 All that glitters is not gold.

  Appearances can be deceptive.

 All days are short to Industry and long to Idleness.

  Time goes by slowly when you have nothing to do.

 All is fair in love and war

  Things that are done  in love or war can often be excused.

 All's well that ends well

  There is a solution to everything even though there are doubts.

 All that glitters is not gold.

  What look good on the outside may not be so in reality.

 All things grow with time - except grief.

  As time goes by, grief subsides little by little.

 All things are difficult before they are easy.

 

 All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.

  Everybody needs a certain amount of relaxation.  It is not good to work all
  the time.

 An apple a day keeps the doctor away.*

  Eating an apple every day can help to keep you healthy.
  Other interpretation : A small preventive treatment wards off serious problems.

 An empty purse frightens away friends.

  When one's financial situation deteriorates,  friends tend to disappear.

 An Englishman's home is his castle.

  An Englishman's home is a place where he feels safe,  enjoys privacy
  and can do as he wishes.

 An idle brain is the devil's workshop.

  When you work you avoid temptation.

 An onion a day keeps everyone away.*

 

 An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

  It is easier to prevent something from happening than to repair the damage or
  cure the disease later.

+ نوشته شده در  دوشنبه دوازدهم بهمن 1388ساعت 10:29  توسط یزدانی | 
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+ نوشته شده در  پنجشنبه هشتم بهمن 1388ساعت 22:34  توسط یزدانی | 
این روزا این سخنان بزرگان خیلی خریدار داره!! بعضی ها فقط عادت دارن اینارو حفظ کنن بخاطر اینکه به دیگران بگن. فقط همین ولی اصلا دربارش فکر نمیکنن که معنیش چیه. هر جمله ای که می خونی دربارش فکر کن....!!!!!!!!! فکر کردن خیلی مهمه که ما ها به ندرت انجامش میدیم.

به فکر کردن میشه خیلی کار هارو انجام داد.

نوابغ بزرگ زندگي نامه بسيار كوتاهي دارند. امرسون



نه ترن، نه ريل ها، اصل نيستند، اصل حركت است. ژيلبر سيسبرون



هنرمندان ناب ، هر روز در برابر ديدگان مردم نيستند . ارد بزرگ



مصمم به نيك بختي باش، نيك بخت مي شوي. لينكلن



بدي را با عدالت پاسخ دهيد، مهرباني را با مهرباني. كنفوسيوس



اگر مي خواهي در برابر قاضي نايستي، قانونمند زندگي كن. ولتر



جهان را نگه داريد، مي خواهم پياده شوم . اوبالديا



كسي كه حق اظهار نظر و بيان فكر خود را نداشته باشد، موجودي زنده محسوب نمي شود. مونتسكيو



نيرنگ پيران بدنهاد ، تنها با مرگ به پايان مي رسد . ارد بزرگ



زندگي دشمن شما نيست، اما طرز فكرتان مي تواند دشمن شما باشد. ريچارد كارسون



در عشق ، يک و يک مي شود يک . ژان پل سارتر



انسان محکوم است که آزاد باشد ، چرا که به محض پرتاب شدن به اين دنيا ، مسئول کرده هاي خويش است . ژان پل سارتر



همه چيز کشف شده است مگر چگونه زيستن . ژان پل سارتر



لجن عذاب آب است . ژان پل سارتر



نمي توان اميد داشت ، آدم هاي کوچک رازهاي بزرگ را نگاه دارند. ارد بزرگ



وقتي ثروتمندان جنگ به پا مي کنند ، اين فقرا هستند که مي ميرند . ژان پل سارتر



لحظه اي که ( توهم جاودان بودن ) را از دست بدهي ، زندگي هم معنايش را از دست مي دهد . ژان پل سارتر



خدا دايره اي است به مرکز همه جا و محيط هيچ جا . امپدوکلس



آدمي از بخت و اقبال بت ساخته است تا بي قيدي و بي توجهي خود را توجيه کند . دموکريت



در اين هستي هيچ چيز وجود ندارد مگر اتم و فضاي خالي ، هر چيز ديگري پندار آدمي است . دموکريت



آنکه به خرد توانا شد ، ترس برايش نامفهوم است . ارد بزرگ



من داناترين انسان ها هستم ، زيرا يک چيز مي دانم که ديگران نمي دانند ، و آن اين که هيچ چيز نمي دانم . سقراط



در دوستي درنگ کن ، اما وقتي دوست شدي ثابت قدم و پايدار باش . سقراط



دانش حقيقي اين است که همه بدانيم که نادانيم . سقراط



زندگي بدون تحقيق و جستار ارزش زيستن ندارد . سقراط



آنگونه باش که مي خواهي به نظر برسي . سقراط



کين خواهي از خاندان يک بدکار ، تنها نشان ترس است ، نه نيروي آدمهاي  فرهمند . ارد بزرگ



بايد بخوري تا زنده باشي ، نه آنکه زنده باشي تا بخوري . سقراط



نمي توانم چيزي به ديگران بياموزم ؛ فقط مي توانم وادارشان کنم که بينديشند . سقراط



فلسفه متعالي ترين موسيقي هاست . افلاطون



با سرانگشت عشق هر کسي شاعر مي شود . افلاطون



دانايان حرف مي زنند چون چيزي براي گفتن دارند . احمق ها حرف مي زنند چون بايد چيزي بگويند . افلاطون



از آه و نفرين بزرگان و ريش سفيدان هر ايلي بايد ترسيد . ارد بزرگ



سگ ، همان روحي را دارد که فيلسوف . افلاطون



چيزي در جهان بهتر از دوست واقعي نيست . آکويناس



چيزي که هميشه پيرو چيز ديگر باشد ، مرده است . آکويناس



مسافرت چيزي است ، تقريبآ مثل حرف زدن با آدميان قرن هاي قبل . دکارت



فراغت ما در فلسفه است . توماس هابز



بي نوايان دارويي جز اميد ندارند . نيچه



گيتي در جنگ و آوردي بزرگ در گردش است . انديشه و تلاش خردمندان از يک سو و پوزخند اهريمن و روان ديوپيشگان از سوي  ديگر ، معرکه اين جهان گذارا  است . ارد بزرگ



نيكي و سود خويش را در زيان ديگران مخواه . زرتشت



انسان، دنيايي از عجايب است . ارسطو



آن کس که هميشه شاگرد باقي مي ماند، زحمات آموزگارش را به خوبي جبران نمي کند . نيچه



سرنوشت يك ملت غالبا بستگي داشته است به خوب كار كردن و خوب كار نكردن جهاز هاضمه نخست وزيران ملت . ولتر



هستي ما به ناپايداري ابرهاي پاييز تماشاي تولد و مرگ موجودات همچون نظاره شعله‌‌هاي آتش يك عمر مانند جرقه رعدي در آسمان چون سيلابي پر شتاب و روان از سراشيبي كوهي . گواتما بودا



دودماني که بزرگان و ريش سفيدانش خوار باشند ، به کالبد بي جاني ماند که خوراک جانوران ديگر شود . ارد بزرگ



يک ساعت کوهنوردي از يک قديس و يک ابليس ، دو برادر مي سازد . نيچه



عجبا ! اين خانم اثري از عقل و هوش دارد ؛ از کجا اين دو را آورده است ؟ . نيچه



ميان دانستن و دريافت کردن فاصله زيادي است. دانستن دشوار نيست اما دريافت کردن دشواراست. شو کينگ



چه نشاني از بد انديش بجاست ؟ هيچ . ارد بزرگ



با کودکان بازي کن ، آنان بزرگترين معلمان تو هستند . شريل ريحاردسون



برنامه ريزي لزوما بد نيست اما عاشق شدن طبق برنامه ديوانگي محض است . وين داير



در برف ، سپيدي پيداست . آيا تن به آن مي دهي ؟ بسياري با نماي سپيد نزديک مي شوند که در ژرفناي خود نيستي بهمراه دارند .  ارد بزرگ



عجيب است که ما انسان ها از هر جهت تا به اين حد هوشمند هستيم. فضا و ساختمان اتم را کشف مي کنيم اما از ماهيت خودمان اطلاعي نداريم يا درک درستي نداريم . يوستين گوردر



هرگز نميتوان با آدمهاي كوچك كارهاي بزرگ را انجام داد . سيسرون



چنان باش كه بتواني به هر كس بگوئي مثل من رفتار كن . كانت



اندرز پيران ، بيشتر زمان ها مملو از خون و درد است که بدبختانه جوان از فهم آن ناتوان است . ارد بزرگ



ميان دانستن و دريافت کردن فاصله زيادي است. دانستن دشوار نيست اما دريافت کردن دشوار است. شو کينگ



هرکس همان گونه است که فکر مي کند پس مراقب افکار خود باشيد . ذهن همچون ساعتي پيوسته درحال کار کردن است و بايد هر روز با انديشه هاي خوب آن را کوک کرد . جي.پي.واسواني



دودمان بي نيا و مرد کهن ، به هزار آيين اهريمني گردانده مي شود . ارد بزرگ



يکي از بهترين راه هاي استفاده از وقت اين است که قابليت هاي خود را در زمينه هايي که نتايج کليدي را براي شما به بار مي آورد افزايش دهيد . برايان تريسي



خوشبختي شكل ظاهري ايمان است ،تا ايمان و اميد و سخت كوشي نباشد ،هيچ كاري را نمي توان انجام داد . هلن كلر



يكي از مهمترين راههاي خوشبختي حقـير شمردن مرگ است . لوبون



روز هاي خوش براي کژانديش بسيار کوتاه و روز کيفر بسيار دراز . ارد بزرگ



+ نوشته شده در  جمعه دوم بهمن 1388ساعت 22:46  توسط یزدانی | 

Regular Verbs List

There are thousands of regular verbs in English. This is a list of 600 of the more common regular verbs. Note that there are some spelling variations in American English (for example, "practise" becomes "practice" in American English).

  • accept
  • add
  • admire
  • admit
  • advise
  • afford
  • agree
  • alert
  • allow
  • amuse
  • analyse
  • announce
  • annoy
  • answer
  • apologise
  • appear
  • applaud
  • appreciate
  • approve
  • argue
  • arrange
  • arrest
  • arrive
  • ask
  • attach
  • attack
  • attempt
  • attend
  • attract
  • avoid

 

  • back
  • bake
  • balance
  • ban
  • bang
  • bare
  • bat
  • bathe
  • battle
  • beam
  • beg
  • behave
  • belong
  • bleach
  • bless
  • blind
  • blink
  • blot
  • blush
  • boast
  • boil
  • bolt
  • bomb
  • book
  • bore
  • borrow
  • bounce
  • bow
  • box
  • brake
  • brake
  • branch
  • breathe
  • bruise
  • brush
  • bubble
  • bump
  • burn
  • bury
  • buzz

 

  • calculate
  • call
  • camp
  • care
  • carry
  • carve
  • cause
  • challenge
  • change
  • charge
  • chase
  • cheat
  • check
  • cheer
  • chew
  • choke
  • chop
  • claim
  • clap
  • clean
  • clear
  • clip
  • close
  • coach
  • coil
  • collect
  • colour
  • comb
  • command
  • communicate
  • compare
  • compete
  • complain
  • complete
  • concentrate
  • concern
  • confess
  • confuse
  • connect
  • consider
  • consist
  • contain
  • continue
  • copy
  • correct
  • cough
  • count
  • cover
  • crack
  • crash
  • crawl
  • cross
  • crush
  • cry
  • cure
  • curl
  • curve
  • cycle

 

  • dam
  • damage
  • dance
  • dare
  • decay
  • deceive
  • decide
  • decorate
  • delay
  • delight
  • deliver
  • depend
  • describe
  • desert
  • deserve
  • destroy
  • detect
  • develop
  • disagree
  • disappear
  • disapprove
  • disarm
  • discover
  • dislike
  • divide
  • double
  • doubt
  • drag
  • drain
  • dream
  • dress
  • drip
  • drop
  • drown
  • drum
  • dry
  • dust

 

  • earn
  • educate
  • embarrass
  • employ
  • empty
  • encourage
  • end
  • enjoy
  • enter
  • entertain
  • escape
  • examine
  • excite
  • excuse
  • exercise
  • exist
  • expand
  • expect
  • explain
  • explode
  • extend

 

  • face
  • fade
  • fail
  • fancy
  • fasten
  • fax
  • fear
  • fence
  • fetch
  • file
  • fill
  • film
  • fire
  • fit
  • fix
  • flap
  • flash
  • float
  • flood
  • flow
  • flower
  • fold
  • follow
  • fool
  • force
  • form
  • found
  • frame
  • frighten
  • fry

 

  • gather
  • gaze
  • glow
  • glue
  • grab
  • grate
  • grease
  • greet
  • grin
  • grip
  • groan
  • guarantee
  • guard
  • guess
  • guide

 

  • hammer
  • hand
  • handle
  • hang
  • happen
  • harass
  • harm
  • hate
  • haunt
  • head
  • heal
  • heap
  • heat
  • help
  • hook
  • hop
  • hope
  • hover
  • hug
  • hum
  • hunt
  • hurry

 

  • identify
  • ignore
  • imagine
  • impress
  • improve
  • include
  • increase
  • influence
  • inform
  • inject
  • injure
  • instruct
  • intend
  • interest
  • interfere
  • interrupt
  • introduce
  • invent
  • invite
  • irritate
  • itch

 

  • jail
  • jam
  • jog
  • join
  • joke
  • judge
  • juggle
  • jump

 

  • kick
  • kill
  • kiss
  • kneel
  • knit
  • knock
  • knot

 

  • label
  • land
  • last
  • laugh
  • launch
  • learn
  • level
  • license
  • lick
  • lie
  • lighten
  • like
  • list
  • listen
  • live
  • load
  • lock
  • long
  • look
  • love

 

  • man
  • manage
  • march
  • mark
  • marry
  • match
  • mate
  • matter
  • measure
  • meddle
  • melt
  • memorise
  • mend
  • mess up
  • milk
  • mine
  • miss
  • mix
  • moan
  • moor
  • mourn
  • move
  • muddle
  • mug
  • multiply
  • murder

 

  • nail
  • name
  • need
  • nest
  • nod
  • note
  • notice
  • number

 

  • obey
  • object
  • observe
  • obtain
  • occur
  • offend
  • offer
  • open
  • order
  • overflow
  • owe
  • own

 

  • pack
  • paddle
  • paint
  • park
  • part
  • pass
  • paste
  • pat
  • pause
  • peck
  • pedal
  • peel
  • peep
  • perform
  • permit
  • phone
  • pick
  • pinch
  • pine
  • place
  • plan
  • plant
  • play
  • please
  • plug
  • point
  • poke
  • polish
  • pop
  • possess
  • post
  • pour
  • practise
  • pray
  • preach
  • precede
  • prefer
  • prepare
  • present
  • preserve
  • press
  • pretend
  • prevent
  • prick
  • print
  • produce
  • program
  • promise
  • protect
  • provide
  • pull
  • pump
  • punch
  • puncture
  • punish
  • push

 

  • question
  • queue

 

 

 

  • race
  • radiate
  • rain
  • raise
  • reach
  • realise
  • receive
  • recognise
  • record
  • reduce
  • reflect
  • refuse
  • regret
  • reign
  • reject
  • rejoice
  • relax
  • release
  • rely
  • remain
  • remember
  • remind
  • remove
  • repair
  • repeat
  • replace
  • reply
  • report
  • reproduce
  • request
  • rescue
  • retire
  • return
  • rhyme
  • rinse
  • risk
  • rob
  • rock
  • roll
  • rot
  • rub
  • ruin
  • rule
  • rush

 

  • sack
  • sail
  • satisfy
  • save
  • saw
  • scare
  • scatter
  • scold
  • scorch
  • scrape
  • scratch
  • scream
  • screw
  • scribble
  • scrub
  • seal
  • search
  • separate
  • serve
  • settle
  • shade
  • share
  • shave
  • shelter
  • shiver
  • shock
  • shop
  • shrug
  • sigh
  • sign
  • signal
  • sin
  • sip
  • ski
  • skip
  • slap
  • slip
  • slow
  • smash
  • smell
  • smile
  • smoke
  • snatch
  • sneeze
  • sniff
  • snore
  • snow
  • soak
  • soothe
  • sound
  • spare
  • spark
  • sparkle
  • spell
  • spill
  • spoil
  • spot
  • spray
  • sprout
  • squash
  • squeak
  • squeal
  • squeeze
  • stain
  • stamp
  • stare
  • start
  • stay
  • steer
  • step
  • stir
  • stitch
  • stop
  • store
  • strap
  • strengthen
  • stretch
  • strip
  • stroke
  • stuff
  • subtract
  • succeed
  • suck
  • suffer
  • suggest
  • suit
  • supply
  • support
  • suppose
  • surprise
  • surround
  • suspect
  • suspend
  • switch

 

  • talk
  • tame
  • tap
  • taste
  • tease
  • telephone
  • tempt
  • terrify
  • test
  • thank
  • thaw
  • tick
  • tickle
  • tie
  • time
  • tip
  • tire
  • touch
  • tour
  • tow
  • trace
  • trade
  • train
  • transport
  • trap
  • travel
  • treat
  • tremble
  • trick
  • trip
  • trot
  • trouble
  • trust
  • try
  • tug
  • tumble
  • turn
  • twist
  • type

 

  • undress
  • unfasten
  • unite
  • unlock
  • unpack
  • untidy
  • use

 

  • vanish
  • visit

 

 

 

  • wail
  • wait
  • walk
  • wander
  • want
  • warm
  • warn
  • wash
  • waste
  • watch
  • water
  • wave
  • weigh
  • welcome
  • whine
  • whip
  • whirl
  • whisper
  • whistle
  • wink
  • wipe
  • wish
  • wobble
  • wonder
  • work
  • worry
  • wrap
  • wreck
  • wrestle
  • wriggle

 

+ نوشته شده در  پنجشنبه یکم بهمن 1388ساعت 12:13  توسط یزدانی | 
 
اگر گهگاهی احساس می کنید که بی حال و حوصله هستید، رنگ نارنجی، را انتخاب کنید؛ هنگام استحمام صبحگاهی، از حوله و ابزار نارنجی استفاده کنید؛ رنگ نارنجی، بی حالی شما را از بین میبرد.

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اگر کم خواب هستید، وسایل اتاق خواب را به رنگ بنفش، درآورید یا از چراغ خواب به رنگ یا چراغ بنفش استفاده کنید؛ رنگ بنفش، آرامش دهنده و خواب آور است.

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اگر از کم خونی رنج می برید، میوه های قرمز رنگ، مانند گیلاس و توت فرنگی میل کنید. همچنین می توانید از گوشت قرمز نیز استفاده نمایید اما نه تا آن حد که دچار کلسترول خون شوید.

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برای لاغر شدن، از بشقاب و رومیزی آبی رنگ استفاده کنید؛ رنگ آبی، اشتها را کم می کند ولی مراقب کاهش وزن بیش از حد خود و اعضای همنشینتان هم باشید.

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اگر مضطرب هستید و فشار عصبی، طاقت شما را بریده است، از رنگ سبز، استفاده کنید؛ رنگ سبز، آرام بخش است و فشار خون را کاهش می دهد.

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افراد افسرده، لباس زرد رنگ بپوشند، غذاهابشان را در ظروف زرد رنگ بخورند و همیشه رنگ زرد را اطراف خود بجویند؛ رنگ زرد، سطح انرژی را بالا برده و مانع افسردگی می شود.

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اگر مشکلی فکری پیش روی شماست، از رنگ نیلی، استفاده کنید؛ رنگ نیلی کمک می کند تا بهتر و با آرامش بیشتری بیندیشید.
+ نوشته شده در  چهارشنبه دوم دی 1388ساعت 16:32  توسط یزدانی | 
1- جلوی گریه خود را نگیرید و گه گاهی گریه كنید.

2- دست كم روزی 15 دقیقه را در سكوت بگذرانید و به نیازهای واقعی خود و نیز چیزهایی كه دارید فكر كنید. سكوت عصاره‌ ی آرامش است، با زور نمی‌ توان آن را ایجاد كرد، باید زمانی كه فرا رسید آن را بپذیرید. اگر برایتان امکان دارد دست كم روزی یك ساعت، تنها به اتاقی بروید و در را به روی خود ببندید.

3- افراد آرام به خود می ‌گویند كه برای تغییر گذشته كاری نمی ‌توان كرد، آنگاه از فكر ادامه زندگی لذت می ‌برند.

4- وقتی احساس می ‌كنید كه سرتان پر از فكرهای جور و واجور است و جای خالی در آن نیست، با قدم زدن، آنها را پاك كنید.

5- اگر نتوانید كسی را ببخشید، افكار خشمگین‌ تان شما را برای همیشه با این افراد مرتبط خواهد كرد. شاد كردن دیگران، باعث آرامش می ‌شود.

6- آرامش را از كودكان بیاموزید، ببینید كه چگونه در همان لحظه‌ ای كه هستند، زندگی می‌ كنند و لذت می ‌برند.

7- از همان كه هستید راضی باشید، در این صورت احساس آرامش بیشتری می‌ كنید.

8- هرچه اكسیژن بیشتری به شما برسد، آرام‌ تر خواهید شد، خوب است در محل كار و زندگی خود گیاهی نگه دارید.

9- مهم نیست كه با شما مؤدبانه برخورد كنند یا نه، برخورد مؤدبانه‌ ی شما، باعث ایجاد آرامی و احساس خوبی در شما خواهد شد.

10- سرعت حركت شما با احساستان رابطه‌ ای مستقیم دارد، آرام راه بروید و حركات بدن خود را آرام ‌تر كنید، طولی نمی‌ كشد كه آرام خواهید شد. گاهی می ‌توانید برای رسیدن به آرامش، دراز بكشید، عضلات خود را شل كنید و به هیچ چیز فكر نكنید.

11- با حركات آرام و صحبت كردن شمرده، احساس آرامش را به جمع منتقل كنید. آیا تا به حال فرد آرامی را دیدید كه با صدای بلند صحبت كند؟

12- با شوخ طبعی به آرامش خود كمك كنید.

13- راحتی، یكی از عناصر مهم آرامش است، مثل دمای مناسب، صندلی راحت و لباس و كفش راحت.

• هر چند وقت یك بار ساعتتان را کنار بگذارید و خود را از فشار زمان نجات دهید.

• در آوردن كفش‌ها به كاهش فشار عصبی كمك می‌كند.

• فشردن یك توپ كوچك، تنش‌های عصبی‌ را كه در انگشتان و دست‌های شما متمركز شده‌اند، خالی می ‌كند.

• لباس‌های گشاد و راحت، باعث ایجاد راحتی و احساس آرامش می‌ شود.

14- لحظه‌ های زیبای زندگیتان را بنویسید و از آنها عكس و فیلم بگیرید، سپس بیشتر وقت‌ها آنها را به یاد آورید و درباره‌ شان فكر كنید و لذت ببرید.

15- هوای دریا، آب شور و صدای امواج، همگی باعث آرامش می ‌شوند، مسافرت به سواحل دریا را فراموش نكنید. تماشای ماهی‌ ها مثل خیره شدن به دریا، در شما ایجاد آرامش می ‌كند، زیرا ماهی‌ها آرام شنا می ‌كنند و آرام تنفس می‌ كنند.

16- آهسته غذا خوردن و جویدن، باعث تجدید قوای فكری و احساس آرامش خواهد شد.

17- برای تأثیر بیشتر و رسیدن به آرامش، در خود متمركز شوید و آرام نفس بكشید.

18- تمرین كنید كه آرامتر از حد معمول صحبت كنید، این كار خود به خود ضربان قلب و تنفستان را كم می‌ كند و به شما اجازه می‌دهد، ذهن و فكرتان را از بسیاری مسائل پاك كنید.

19- اگر به عقاید مذهبی و معنوی پایبند باشید، به یكی از با افتخارترین روش‌های رسیدن به آرامش خاطر رسیده ‌اید، آنگاه می‌ توانید بگویید، الا بذكر الله تطمئن القلوب . اگر از خدا دور افتاده‌اید، اكنون زمان آشتی است. داشتن یك تكیه‌ گاه معنوی در حد تعادل موجب آرامش می ‌شود.

20- احساسات و مشكلات  خود را به دیگران بگویید و آرامش بیشتری احساس كنید.

21- یكی از مهمترین مهارت‌ها در آرام بودن، فكر نكردن به مسائل كوچك است، دومین مهارت، كوچك شمردن تمام مسایل است.

22- شاد كردن دیگران، موجب آرامش می‌ شود. نمی ‌دانید چه لذتی دارد پول رستوران امشب را با توافق سایرین به یك كارتن خواب هدیه دهید. قدردانی كنید. دیگران را برای لطف كردن به خود تحت فشار قرار ندهید، لطف كه وظیفه نیست!

23- اگر می‌ دانستید كه : «سیگار كشیدن + ورزش نكردن = ا سترس ، اضطراب  و حذف آرامش»، هرگز سیگار نمی‌ كشیدید و ورزش  كردن را به تعویق نمی‌ انداختید.

+ نوشته شده در  شنبه بیست و یکم آذر 1388ساعت 12:4  توسط یزدانی | 
چشم‌هاي ما از بدو تولد همين اندازه بوده‌اند، اما رشد دماغ و گوش ما هيچ‌وقت متوقف نمي‌شوند .
هر تکه کاغذ را نمي‌توان بيش از 9 بار تا کرد .
در هرم خئوپوس در مصر که 2600 سال قبل از مبلاد ساخته شده است، به اندازه‌اي سنگ به کار رفته که مي‌توان با آن ديواري آجري به ارتفاع 50 سانتي‌متر دور دنيا ساخت .
اگرتمام رگ‌هاي خوني را در يک خط بگذاريم، تقريبا 97000 کيلومتر مي‌شود .
وقتي مگس بر روي يک ميله فولادي مي‌نشيند، ميله فولادي به اندازه دو ميليونيم ميليمتر خم مي‌شود .
آمريکا تا 50 ميليون سال ديگر دو نيم خواهد شد .
عدد 2520 را مي‌توان بر اعداد 1 تا 10 تقسيم نمود، بدون آن‌که خارج قسمت کسري داشته باشد .
30 برابر مردمي که امروزه بر سطح زمين زندگي مي‌کنند، در زير خاک مدفون شده‌اند .
تنها حيواني که نمي‌تواند شنا کند، شتر است .
شيشه در ظاهر جامد به نظر مي‌رسد ولي در واقع مايعي است که بسيار کند حرکت مي‌کند .
در هر ثانيه بيش از 5000 بيليون بيليون الکترون به صفحه تلويزيون برخورد مي‌کند و تصويري را که شما تماشا مي‌کنيد، بوجود مي‌آورد .
شانس شبيه بودن دو اثر انگشت، يک به 64 ميليارد است .
يک ليتر سرکه در زمستان سنگين‌تر از تابستان است .
قد انسان تا 20، 25 سالگي و گاها 40 سالگي بلند مي‌شود و از چهل سالگي به بعد، قد انسان هر دو سال حدود 6 ميلي‌متر کوتاه مي‌شود .
فقط با از دست دادن يک درصد از آب بدن، احساس تشنگي مي‌کنيم !
دهان انسان روزانه يک ليتر بزاق توليد مي‌کند .
چيتا يا يوزپلنگ سريع‌ترين حيوان خشکي است. او در عرض فقط 3 ثانيه 100 کيلومتر در ساعت سرعت مي‌گيرد. رکوردي که حتي سريع‌ترين خودروهاي فراري هم نتوانسته‌اند بشکنند .
کرم‌هاي ابرشيم در 56 روز، 86 هزار برابر خود غذا مي‌خورند .
تنها قسمت بدن که خون ندارد، قرينه چشم است .
شتر در 3 دقيقه 95 ليتر آب مي‌خورد
+ نوشته شده در  جمعه بیستم آذر 1388ساعت 14:28  توسط یزدانی | 

قبل از اینکه این داستان رو بخونید به این سوالات جواب بدید:

تا حالا تو موقعیت سختی بودید؟ ایا کسی شما رو تشویق کرده یا دلسرد؟ تاثیر حرفها چی بود؟ آیا کلماتی که به کسی خطاب می کنیم باعث رنج آنها میشه یا نجات آنها؟

این داستان نشون میده که چه قدر کلمات افراد میتونه تاثیر گذار باشه!!!!

TWO FROGS

a group of frogs were traveling through the wood. and two of them fell into a deep fit. when the other frogs saw how deep the pit was, they told the two frogs that they were as good as dead. the two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump up out of the pit with all their might. the other frogs kept telling them to stop, that they were as good as dead. Finally, one of the frogs took heed of what they said and gave up. he fell down and died

the other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. ones again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die. he jumped even harder and finally made it out. when he got out, the other frogs said" did you not hear us?" the frog explained to them that he was hard of  hearing. he thought they were encouraging him the entire time

what can we learn from this story? First there is power of life and death in the tongue. An encouraging word to somebody who is down can lift them up and help them make it through the day. Second a destructive word to somebody who is down can be what it takes to kill them

.let's be careful of what we say 

روزی یک دسته قورباغه به جنگلی سفر کرده بودند. دو نفر از آنها به گودال عمیقی افتادند.وقتی قورباغه های دیگر دیدند که چه قدر گودال عمیق است به دو قورباغه گفتند که آنها خواهند مرد. دو غورباقه به حرف های آنها بی توجهی کردند و با تمام قدرتشان به پریدن ادامه دادند.قورباغه های دیگر به آنها میگفتند که تقلا نکنند زیرا خواهند مرد. سرانجام یکی از قورباغه ها حرف آنها را پذیرفت و به پایین افتاد و مرد. قورباغه دیگری به پریدن خودتا آنجا که می توانست ادامه داد. دوباره قورباغه ها فریاد زدند که درد و رنج را کنار بگذار و منتظر مرگ باش. او حتی با قدرت بیشتری پرید و در آخر موفق شد و نجات یافت. وقتی از گودال بیرون آمد قورباغه ها از او پرسیدند که صدای ما رو می شنویدی؟ او توضیح داد که ناشنوا است. و فکر می کرده که آنها دارند او را تشویق می کنند.

ما از این داستان چه چیزی میفهمیم؟ اولا قدرت زندگی و مرگ در زبان ما است. یک کلمه دلگرم کننده می تواند فردی رو که اوضاع خوبی ندارد خوشحال کند و او را برای موفقیت در روز کمک کند. دوم اینکه یک کلمه مخرب که به کسی گفته می شود  می تواند کشنده باشد.

بیاید مراقب حرف زدنمان باشیم .

به کسی تعنه نزنیم..... کسی رو با کلماتمان غمگین نکنیم....... و از هم مهم تر کسی رو با حرف هایمان نا امید نکنیم........

 


(( MY MOTHER HAD ONE EYE ))

My mom only had one eye.  I hated her... she was such an embarrassment.

مادر من فقط یك چشم داشت . من از اون متنفر بودم ... اون همیشه مایه خجالت من بود

She cooked for students & teachers to support the family.

اون برای امرار معاش خانواده برای معلم ها و بچه مدرسه ای ها غذا می پخت

There was this one day during elementary school where my mom came to say hello to me.

یك روز اومده بود  دم در مدرسه كه به من سلام كنه و منو با خود به خونه ببره

I was so embarrassed. How could she do this to me?

 خیلی خجالت كشیدم . آخه اون چطور تونست این كار رو بامن بكنه ؟

I ignored her, threw her a hateful look and ran out.

 به روی خودم نیاوردم ، فقط با تنفر بهش یه نگاه كردم وفورا   از اونجا دور شدم

The next day at school one of my classmates said, "EEEE, your mom only has one eye!"

روز بعد یكی از همكلاسی ها منو مسخره كرد و گفت  هووو .. مامان تو فقط یك چشم داره

I wanted to bury myself. I also wanted my mom to just disappear.

فقط دلم میخواست یك جوری خودم رو گم و گور كنم .  كاش زمین دهن وا میكرد و منو ..كاش مادرم  یه جوری گم و گور میشد...

So I confronted her that day and said, " If you're only gonna make me a laughing stock, why don't you just die?!!!"

روز بعد بهش گفتم اگه واقعا میخوای منو شاد و خوشحال كنی چرا نمی میری ؟

My mom did not respond...

اون هیچ جوابی نداد....

I didn't even stop to think for a second about what I had said, because I was full of anger.

 حتی یك لحظه هم راجع به حرفی كه زدم فكر نكردم ، چون خیلی عصبانی بودم .

I was oblivious to her feelings.

احساسات اون برای من هیچ اهمیتی نداشت

I wanted out of that house, and have nothing to do with her.

دلم میخواست از اون خونه برم و دیگه هیچ كاری با اون نداشته باشم

So I studied real hard, got a chance to go to Singapore to study.

 سخت درس خوندم و موفق شدم برای ادامه تحصیل به سنگاپور برم

Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. I had kids of my own.

اونجا ازدواج كردم ، واسه خودم خونه خریدم ، زن و بچه و زندگی...

I was happy with my life, my kids and the comforts

 از زندگی ، بچه ها و آسایشی كه داشتم خوشحال بودم

Then one day, my mother came to visit me.

تا اینكه یه روز مادرم اومد به دیدن من

She hadn't seen me in years and she didn't even meet her grandchildren.

اون سالها منو ندیده بود و همینطور نوه ها شو

When she stood by the door, my children laughed at her, and I yelled at her for coming over uninvited.

وقتی ایستاده بود دم در  بچه ها به اون خندیدند و من سرش داد كشیدم كه چرا خودش رو دعوت كرده كه بیاد اینجا  ، اونم  بی خبر

I screamed at her, "How dare you come to my house and scare my children!" GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!"

 سرش داد زدم  ": چطور جرات كردی بیای به خونه من و بجه ها رو بترسونی؟!"  گم شو از اینجا! همین حالا

And to this, my mother quietly answered, "Oh, I'm so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address," and she disappeared out of sight.

اون به آرامی جواب داد : " اوه   خیلی معذرت میخوام مثل اینكه آدرس رو عوضی اومدم " و بعد فورا رفت واز نظر  ناپدید شد .

One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house in Singapore .

یك روز یك دعوت نامه اومد در خونه من درسنگاپور برای شركت درجشن تجدید دیدار دانش آموزان مدرسه

So I lied to my wife that I was going on a business trip.

 ولی من به همسرم به دروغ گفتم كه به یك سفر كاری میرم .

After the reunion, I went to the old shack just out of curiosity.

بعد از مراسم ، رفتم به اون كلبه قدیمی خودمون ؛ البته فقط از روی كنجكاوی .

My neighbors said that she is died.

همسایه ها گفتن كه اون مرده

I did not shed a single tear.

ولی من حتی یك قطره اشك هم نریختم

They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have.

اونا یك نامه به من دادند كه اون ازشون خواسته بود كه به من بدن

"My dearest son, I think of you all the time. I'm sorry that I came to Singapore and scared your children.

 ای عزیزترین پسر من ، من همیشه به فكر تو بوده ام ، منو ببخش كه به خونت تو سنگاپور   اومدم و بچه ها تو ترسوندم ،

I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion.

 خیلی خوشحال شدم وقتی شنیدم داری میآی اینجا

But I may not be able to even get out of bed to see you.

 ولی من ممكنه كه نتونم از جام بلند شم كه بیام تورو ببینم

I'm sorry that I was a constant embarrassment to you when you were growing up.

وقتی داشتی بزرگ میشدی از اینكه دائم باعث خجالت تو شدم خیلی متاسفم

You see........when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye.

آخه میدونی ... وقتی تو خیلی كوچیك بودی تو یه تصادف یك چشمت رو از دست دادی

As a mother, I couldn't stand watching you having to grow up with one eye.

به عنوان یك مادر نمی تونستم تحمل كنم و ببینم كه تو با یك چشم داری بزرگ میشی

So I gave you mine.

رو دادم به تو بنابراین چشم خودم

I was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye.

برای من اقتخار بود كه پسرم میتونست با اون چشم  به جای من دنیای جدید رو بطور كامل ببینه

With my love to you,

با همه عشق و علاقه من به تو

 

 

+ نوشته شده در  جمعه ششم آذر 1388ساعت 14:19  توسط یزدانی | 

بزرگ مرد کوچک

 

در روزگاری که بستنی با شکلات به گرانی امروز نبود پسر 10 ساله ای وارد قهوه فروشی هتلی شد و پشت میزی نشست. خدمتکار برای سفارش گرفتن به سراغش رفت.

پسر پرسی: بستنی با شکلات چند است؟

خدمتکار گفت: 50سنت.

پسر کوچک دستش را در جیبش کرد. تمام پول خردهایش را در اورد و شمرد بعد پرسید: بستنی خالی چند است؟

خدمتکار با بی حوصله گی گفت: 35سنت.

پسر دوباره سکه هایش را شمرد و گفت: برای من یک بستنی ساده بیاور.

خدمتکار بستنی را به همراه صورت حساب روی میز گذاشت و رفت. پسر بستنی را تمام کرد و رفت. هنگامی که خدمتکار برای تمیز کردن میز رفت، گریه اش گرفت. چون پسر بچه در کنار بشقاب خالی 15 سنت برای انعام او گذاشته بود.

 

یعنی او با پول هایش می توانست بستنی با شکلات بخورد اما چون پولی برای انعام باقی نمی ماند این کار را  نکرد.

امید وارم این داستان روی شما تاثیر بذاره و هیچ وقت زود قضاوت نکنید.

 

 


نگرش

 

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باشد..... آنگاه داریم.....

 

کار سخت:HARD WORK

H+A+R+D+W+O+R+K

8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11=98%

 

دانش: KNOWLEDGE

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دوست داشتن:LOVE

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خوشبختی:LUCK

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(بسشتر  ما تصور می کنیم که این مورد خیلی مهم باشه؟؟  ولی می بینیم که نیست. تنها 47%)

 

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این نگرش ما به زندگی و کار است که زندگی ما را 100% میسازد!!!!

نگرش تان را تغییر دهید ( البته تغییر مثبت) تا بتئانید زندگیتان را تغییر دهید!!!!

 

 

 

 

+ نوشته شده در  چهارشنبه چهارم آذر 1388ساعت 23:33  توسط یزدانی | 

Shariati.
This speech is translated by Dr. hamed Algar and pulished in
the book 'On Sociology of Islam'. Again this is rather long
article with a very relavant message.
MAN AND ISLAM
(A translation of Insan va Islam, a lecture given by Dr. Ali Shariati at
the Petroleum College of Abadan).
The question of man is the most important of all questions. The
civilization of today is based upon humanism, the nobility of man and the
worship of man. It is believed that the religions of the past crushed the
personality of man and compelled him to sacrifice himself to the gods.
They forced him to regard his own will as totally powerless when
confronted by the will of God. They compelled him always to be seeking
something from God by way of prayer, supplication and entreaty. The
philosophy of humanism is, then, a philosophy that, since the Renaissance,
has opposed religious philosophies -philosophies founded on belief in the
unseen and supranatural realm- and its aim has allegedly been to restore
nobility to man. The roots of humanism lie in Athens, but as a universal
philosophy, it has become the basis of the modern civilization of the
West. In reality, it arose as a reaction to scholastic philosophy and
medieval Christianity.
My purpose tonight is to examine -within the limits of my capability
and the present occasion- the question of man from the viewpoint of our
religion, Islam, and to seek an answer to the question: what kind of a
phenomenon does Islam see in man? Does it see in man a powerless creature
whose ultimate aim and ideal is to stand helpless before God? Does Islam
deny man all notion of nobility? Or, on the contrary, does belief in
Islam itself impart a form of nobility to man, and acknowledgement of his
virtues? This is the topic I wish to discuss.
In order to understand the place of "humanism" in different
religions, and the concept of man that each of them holds, it is best to
study the philosophy of man that each has set forth. However, I do not
have the opportunity now to examine all the religions of East and West
from this point of view. I will speak only of the philosophy of creation
that exists in Islam and those pre-Islamic religions of which Islam is the
continuation -the religions of Moses, Jesus and Abraham.
How is the creation of man explained in Islam or the Abrahamic
scriptures, of which Islam is the culmination and perfection? Can we
deduce the status and nature of man from the manner in which the creation
of man is described in the Qur'an, the Word of God, or in the words of the
Prophet of Islam? From examining the story of Adam -the symbol of man- in
the Qur'an, we can understand what kind of a creature man is in the view
of God and therefore in the view of our religion. By way of introduction,
let me point out that the language of religion, and particularly the
language of the semitic religions, in whose prophets we believe, is a
symbolical language. By this we mean a language that expresses meaning
through images and symbols -the most excellent and exalted of all the
languages that men have ever evolved. Its value is more profound and
eternal than that of expository language, i.e., the clear and explicit
language that expresses meaning directly. A simple and straight forward
language, one deprived of all symbol and image, may be easier for purposes
of instruction, but it has no permanence. For, as the celebrated Egyptian
philosopher Abdar-Rahman Badawi has pointed out, a religion or philosophy
that expounds all of its ideas and teachings in simple, one dimensional
and straightforward language will not be able to survive. Those addressed
by religion or philosophy represent different human types and classes-both
the common folk and the educated. The audience of a religion is,
moreover, not a single generation or age, but different and successive
generations which follow upon each other throughout history. They
inevitably differ with each other with respect to way of thought, level of
thought, and angle of vision. The language that a religion chooses in
order to convey its concepts must, then, be a versatile and multi-faceted
language, each aspect and facet of which addresses itself to a particular
generation and class of men. If the language be monofaceted, it will be
comprehensible only to a single class, and totally without value for all
other classes; accessible to one generation, but beyond the reach of the
next. It will be impossible to extract any new meaning from it. It is
for this reason that all literary works written in symbolic language are
immortal. For example, the poems of Hafez are immortal, and whenever we
read them we deduce a new meaning from them, in proportion to the depth of
our though and taste and outlook. But the history of Bayhaqi is something
different, as is, too, the Gulestan of Sa'di. When we read the Gulestan,
its meaning is quite apparent to us, and we enjoy verbal beauty and
structure. But many of the ideas it contains are outmoded, precisely
because it is clear what Sa'di had to say and what he had to say is false!
But the style of Hafez is multifaceted and symbolical; depending on his
taste and manner thought, everyone can interpret its symbols in a certain
sense, thus deducing new meanings from the text.
It is for this reason that religions must employ a symbolic
language; they are addressed to different human types and different
generations of men. There are numerous concepts in religion that were not
clearly understood at the time of appearance. If religion had NOT, on the
one hand, expressed its ideas in common, familiar language, it would have
been incomprehensible to the people of that age; but if it HAD expressed
its ideas in common language, religion would had no meaning in later
times. It was therefore necessary that religion should speak in images
and symbols that would become comprehensible with the development of human
thought and science. Symbolism represents the highest of styles in
European literature -symbolism, which is the art of speaking in symbols
and images and concealing profound ideas in images that apparently mean
something else but have an significance that man can discover in
accordance with his own degree of profundity.
It was necessary, then, that the story of the creation of Adam, of
man, be told in symbolic fashion, so that today, after fourteen centuries
of progress in the human and natural sciences, it should still be readable
and comprehensible.
How was man created, in the view of Islam?
First God addresses the angels, saying, "I wish to create a
viceregent for Myself upon earth." See how great is the value of man
according to Islam! Even the post-Renaissance humanism Europe has never
been able to conceive of such exalted sanctity for man. God, Who in the
view of Islam and all believers, is the greatest and most exalted of all
entities, the creator of Adam and the master of the cosmos, addresses the
angels and presents man to them as His viceregent. The whole mission of
man according to Islam becomes evident from this divine address. The same
mission that God has in the cosmos, man must perform on earth as God's
viceregent. The first excellence that man possesses is, then, being God's
representative on earth.
The angels cry out saying, "You wish to create one who will engage
in bloodshed, crime, hatred and vengeance-" (Since before Adam, there had
been other men who, like the man of today, busied themselves in bloodshed,
crime, corruption and sin, and the angels wished to remind God that if He
were to create man again and grant him a second opportunity on earth, man
would again engage in bloodshed and sin. But God replies, "I know
something that you do not know," and then sets about the task of creating
man.
It is at this point that the symbolic aspect of the narrative
begins. See what profound truths concerning man are hidden beneath these
symbols! God desires to create a viceregent for myself out of earth, the
face of the globe. One might expect It the most sacred and valuable of
materials would have been selected, but God chose, on the contrary, the
lowest of substances. The Qur'an mentions on three occasions the
substance from which man was fashioned. First it uses the expression
"like potter's clay" (55:14); that is, dry, sedimentary clay. Then the
Qur'an says, "I created man from putrid clay" ( 15:26), foul and evil-
smelling earth; and finally it uses the term tin, also meaning clay (6:2,
23:12). So God set to work, and willed to create a viceregent for
Himself; this precious viceregent He created out of dry clay, and then He
inhaled some of his own spirit into the clay, and man was created.
In human language, the lowest symbol of wretchedness and baseness is
mud. No creature exists in nature lowlier than mud. Again in human
language, the most exalted and sacred of beings is God, and the most
exalted, sacred and noble part of every being is its spirit. Man, the
representative of God, was created from mud, from sedimentary clay, from
the Iowliest substance in the world, and then God inhaled into him not his
blood or His body -so to speak- but His spirit, the most exalted entity
for which human languages possess a name. God is the most exalted of
beings, and His spirit is the most exalted entity conceivable, the most
exalted concept that could ever arise in the human mind.
Thus man is a compound of mud and divine spirit, a bi-dimensional
being, a creature with a dual nature, as opposed to all other beings which
are one-dimensional. One dimension inclines to mud and lowliness, to
stagnation and immobility. When a river overflows, it leaves behind a
certain muddy sediment that lacks all motion and life, and the nature of
man, in one of its dimensions, aspires to precisely this state of
sedimentary tranquility. But the other dimension, that of the spirit, as
it is called in the Qur'an, aspires to ascend and to mount up to the
highest summit conceivable -to God and the spirit of God.
Man is composed, then, of two contradictory elements, mud and the
spirit of God; and his splendor and importance derive precisely from the
fact that he is a two-dimensional creature. The distance between his two
dimensions is the distance between clay and the spirit of God. Every man
is endowed with these two dimensions, and it is his will that enables him
to decide either to descend toward the pole of sedimentary mud that exists
in his being, or to ascend toward the pole of exaltation, of God and the
spirit of God. This constant striving and struggle takes place in man's
inner being, until finally he chooses one of the poles as the determinant
for his destiny.
After thus creating man, God taught him the names. (As will be
apparent to you, I am paraphrasing the verses of the Qur'an as I proceed.)
What does this teaching of the names mean? It is not yet certain.
Everyone has expressed a certain opinion, and every commentator has
suggested his own in interpretation. Everyone has interpreted it according
to his own outlook and way of thought. But whatever be the correct
explanation, there can be no doubt that the verse centers on the notion of
teaching and instruction. When the creation of man was completed, God
thought his viceregent the names so that man became a possessor of the
names. Then the angels cried out in protest, "We were created of
smokeless fire and man was created of clay; why do you prefer him to us?"
And God replies, "I know something you do not know; fall down at the feet
of this two-dimensional creature of mine." All the angels of God, great
and small, are commanded to fall down in prostration before this creature.
This is true humanism. See how great is the dignity and stature of
man; so great, indeed, that all the angels, despite their inherent
superiority to man and the fact that they are created of light while he is
created of mud and clay, are commanded to fall down before him. God tests
them because of their protest, and asks the angels concerning the names;
they do not know the names, but Adam does know them. The angels are
defeated in this test, and the excellence of Adam -which lies in his
knowledge of the names- becomes apparent. This prostration of the angels
before Adam serves to clarify the Islamic concept of man. Man knows
certain things that the angels do not know, and this knowledge endows man
with superiority to the angels despite the superiority of the angels to
man with respect to race and origin. In other words, the nobility and
dignity of man derive knowledge and not from lineage.
Another point to be considered is the creation of woman from rib of
man, at least according to the translations usually made from the Arabic.
But the translation "rib" is incorrect, and the word so translated has the
real meaning, in both Arabic and Hebrew, of "nature, disposition or
constitution." Eve -that is, woman- Was created, then, out of the same
nature or disposition as man. Since the word has been mistranslated as
"rib," the legend arose that woman was created from the left rib of Adam,
and therefore all women are lacking one rib!
A great man like Nietzsche said that man and woman were created as
totally separate creatures, and only came to resemble each other because
of their constant association through history. The ancestries of man and
woman he held to be different. Almost all scholars and philosophers have
conceded that man and woman are of the same stock, yet they have tried to
belittle the nature of woman and present the nature of man as superior.
But the Qur'an says, "We have created Eve from the same nature or
disposition as Adam; man and woman proceed from the same substance."
Another remarkable matter concerning the creation of man that God
summons all of his creation, all the phenomena of nature such as inanimate
objects, plants, animals, and tells them, "I have a trust that I wish to
offer to all of you heavens, mountains, oceans and beasts." They all
refused to accept it, and instead, man accepts it. It is thus clear that
man has another virtue and excellence, deriving from his courageous
acceptance of the Trust that God offered to all beings and they rejected.
Man is not only the viceregent of God in this world and on this earth, but
also -as the Qur'an makes clear- the keeper of His Trust. Now what is the
meaning of the Trust? Everyone says something different. Maulana Jalal
ad-Din Rumi says that the Trust means man's will, his free will, and this
is also my opinion.
It is by means of his will that man attains superiority over all
other creatures in the world. He is the only being able to act counter to
his own instinctual nature, something no a plant can do. For example, you
will never encounter an animal voluntarily engaging in a two-day fast, or
a plant committing suicide out of grief. Plants and animals can neither
render great services nor commit treachery. It is not possible for them
to act in a way different from that in which they have been created. It
is only man who can rebel against the way in which created, who can defy
even his spiritual or bodily need: against the dictates of goodness and
virtue. He can act either in accordance with his intelligence or in
opposition to it. He is free to be good or to be evil, to resemble mud or
to resemble God. Will is, then, the greatest property of man, and the
affinity between God and man is apparent from this fact.
For it is God Who inhales into man some of His own spirit and makes
of him the bearer of his Trust, and man is not merely the viceregent of
God upon earth but also His relative -if the expression be permitted. The
spirits of God and man both possess an excellence deriving from the
possession of will. God, the only entity and being possessing an absolute
will and capable of doing whatever it wishes, even in contradiction to the
laws of the universe, inhales some of His spirit in man. Man can act like
God, but only to a certain degree; he can act against a laws of his
physiological constitution only to the extent permitted by his similarity
to God. This is the aspect held in common by men and God, the cause of
their affinity-free will, the freedom for man to be good or evil, to obey
or rebel.
The following conclusions can be drawn with regard to the philosophy
of the creation of man in Islam: All men are not simply equal; they are
brothers. The difference between equality and brotherhood is quite clear.
Equality is a legal concept, while brotherhood proclaims the uniform
nature and disposition of all men; all men originate from a single source,
whatever their color.
Secondly, man and woman are equal. Contrary to all the philosophies
of the ancient world, man and woman were created out of the same substance
and material at the same time and by the same Creator. They share the
same lineage, and are brothers and sisters to each other, descended from
the same mother and father.
Thirdly, the superiority of man to the angels and the whole of
creation derives from knowledge, since man learned the names and the
angels fell in prostration before him; despite the superiority of their
descent to that of man, they were compelled to humble themselves before
him.
More important than all this, man's being stretches out over the
distance between mud and God, and since he possesses will, he can choose
either of the two opposing poles these represent. Again since he possesses
will, a certain responsibility comes into being. From the point of view
of Islam, man is the only being responsible not only for his own destiny
but also for the fulfillment of a divinely entrusted mission in this
world; he is the bearer of God's Trust in the world and in nature. It is
he who has learned the names -and, in my opinion, the proper meaning of
"names" is the truths of science, since the name of a thing is its symbol,
its defined, conceptual form. The teaching of the names by God means,
therefore, the bestowal of the ability to perceive and comprehend the
scientific truths inherent in the world. Through this primordial
instruction by God,man gained access to all the truths existing in the
world, and this constitutes a second great responsibility for man. Man
must fashion his destiny with his own hands. Human society is responsible
for its own fate, and the human individual is responsible for his own
fate: "Yours is what you acquire and theirs is what they acquire '
(Qur'an, 2:134). The fate of past civilizations is no more and no less
than what they brought down on themselves, and your fate will consist
exactly of what you are now fashioning with your own hands. Man thus has
a great responsibility toward God, since he possesses free will.
Here we must add this observation, that history has witnessed a
great tragedy; namely, man has not been recognized as a two-dimensional
being. In contrast with other religions that posit God and the Devil to
exist within nature in mutual combat, Islam teaches that only one force
exists in nature -the force of God. But within man, Satan wages war
against God, and man is their battlefield. The dualism of Islam, unlike
religions of the past, posits the existence of two "deities," hypostases,
in the inner being and disposition of man, not in nature. Nature knows
only of a single hypostasis; it belongs to the realm, and is subject to
the will, of a single power, that of God. In Islam, Satan is not a
contestant with God; he is a contestant against man, or rather against the
divine half of the man. And since man is a two-dimensional creature
composed of God and of clay, he has need of both elements. The religion
and ideology that he needs to believe in and to found his life upon must
fulfill both kinds of need and pay both of them due attention. The tragedy
is that history tells a different tale. History tells us that all
societies and civilizations were oriented exclusively either to the
hereafter and renunciation of this world, or to this world of dust. The
civilization of China began by being oriented to this world, by giving
primacy to pleasure and beauty and striving to enjoy the gifts of nature
to the full, as the life of the Chinese aristocracy testifies. Then came
Lao Tse, bringing a religion exclusively oriented to the hereafter, and
emphasizing in the spiritual and other-worldly dimension of man. Indeed,
he led the Chinese so far in that direction, that a people who had lived
purely for the sake of pleasure became monks, gnostic and mystics. He was
succeeded by Confucius, who oriented society toward this world and
summoned the Chinese to the pleasures of worldly life, causing them to
revert to their former preoccupations.
India, the land of rajas and legends, was oriented to the other
world by the teachings of Vedas and the Buddha, devoting itself to
abstemiousness, monasticism and mysticism. It is for this reason that
India is now famous for men sleeping on beds of nails, or subsisting for
forty days on a single date or almond, for remaining behind the progress
of civilization.
In Europe, ancient Rome devoted itself to murder and bloodshed, to
establishing political mastery of the world, to accumulating all the
wealth of Europe and Asia; it immersed itself in enjoyment and pleasure,
in gladiator fights and the like. Then came jesus, who directed society
to concentrate on the hereafter, so that Rome changed its orientation from
pleasure to worldliness to asceticism and contemplation of the hereafter,
the ultimate result of this being the Middle Ages. The medieval world was
one of war and bloodshed and military ascendance on the one hand; and one
of monasteries, nunneries and retreats, on the other. Europe was
delivered from this orientation only by the Renaissance, which caused the
pendulum to swing in the other direction. Today we see that European
civilization is so worldly in its orientation, and so exclusively defines
the purpose of man's life as pleasure and enjoyment, that, as Professor
Chandel has out it, the life of contemporary man consists of making the
tools of life. This is the idiocy of the contemporary philosophy of man,
the result of a purpose-free technology. The whole meaning of
civilization has been robbed of any ideal, and the world has gone so far
in the direction of worldliness that it almost seems as if another Jesus
were needed.
As is apparent from the philosophy of man in Islam, he is a two-
dimensional being and needs, therefore, a religion will which will also be
two-dimensional and exert its force in the two different and opposing
directions that exist in man's spirit and human society. Only then will
man be able to maintain equilibrium. The religion needed is Islam.
Why Islam?
In order to understand any religion, one must study its God, its
Book, its Prophet, and the best individuals whom it has nurtured and
raised.
First, the God of Islam is a two-dimensional God. He has the aspect
of Yahwa, the god of the Jews, who interests himself in human society, in
the affairs of this world, who is stern, severe in punishment, and
tyrannical, and also the aspect of the God of Jesus, who is compassionate,
merciful and forgiving. All of these divine attributes can be found in
the Qur'an.
As for the book of Islam, the Qur'an, it is a book that like the
Torah contains social, political and military provision, even the
instructions for the conduct of warfare, the taking and setting free of
prisoners, that is interested in life, in building, in prosperity, in
struggling against enemies and negative elements; but it is also a book
that concerns itself with refinement of the soul, the piety of the spirit,
and the ethical improvement of the individual.
The Prophet of Islam also possesses two contrasting aspects, aspects
which would be contradictory in other men, but in him have been joined in
a single spirit. For he was a man constantly engaged in political
struggle against his enemies and the disruptive forces in society,
concerned with building a new society and a new civilization in this
world; and also a guide leading men to a particular goal; that is, also a
man of prayer, piety and devotion.
And then three men trained by him -Ali, Abu Dharr and Salman- were
supreme examples of two-dimensional men. They were both men of politics
and battle, struggling for a better life and constantly present in circles
of discussions and learning, and also men of piety and purity, not less
than the great monks and mystics of the East. Abu Dharr was a man of
politics and piety; the reflections of Abu Dharr concerning the nature of
God can serve as a key to the understanding of the Qur'an. Look at all
the companions of the Prophet; they were all men of the sword, concerned
with improving their society, men of justice, and at the same time, great
men of thought and feeling.
The conclusion I wish to draw is this: in Islam man is not humbled
before God, for he is the partner of God, His friend, thee bearer of His
trust upon earth. He enjoys affinity with God, has been instructed by
Him, and seen all of God's angels fall prostrate before him. Two-
dimensional man, bearing the burden of such responsibility, needs a
religion that transcends exclusive orientation to this world or the next,
and permits him to maintain a state of equilibrium. It is only such a
religion that enables man to fulfill his great responsibility

+ نوشته شده در  دوشنبه دوم آذر 1388ساعت 22:0  توسط یزدانی | 

A bad workman always blames his tools.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

A friend in need is a friend indeed.

A miss is as good as a mile.

A new broom sweeps clean.

A rolling stone gathers no moss.

A stitch in time saves nine.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Actions speak louder than words.

All good things come to an end.

All that glitters is not gold.

All's well that ends well.

Any Tim, Dick or Harry.

As you make your bed, so you must lie.

Barking up the wrong tree

Barking dogs never bite.

Beauty is only skin deep.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Before you can say Jack Robinson.

Beggars cannot be choosers.

Better late than never.

Better safe than sorry.

Broken crockery brings you luck.

Charity begins at home.

Close but no cigar.

Do lunch or be lunch.

Don't cross a bridge till you come to it.

Don't count your chicken before they are hatched.

Don't mock the afflicted.

Dripping hollows out rock.

Easy come easy go.

Enough is as good as a feast.

Every Jack will find his Jill.

Fair exchange is no robbery.

Few sandwiches short of a picnic.

First come, first served.

For Pete's sake.

Fortune favours fools.

Good things come to those who wait.

He deserved the break.

He is a chip of the old block.

He had reckoned without his host.

He who makes no mistakes, makes nothing.

Honesty is the best policy.

I wouldn't live in that dump if you paid me!

If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.

In for a penny, in for a pound.

It is foolish to fear that which you cannot avoid.

It is never too late to mend.

It is too late to shut the barn door after the horse has bolted.

It never rains but it pours.

It takes two to tango.

It's raining cats and dogs.

Justice was never done but someone complained.

Kill 2 birds with one stone.

Knowledge is power.

Lies have short legs.
Lies don't travel far.

Like father like son.

Listeners hear no good of themselves.

Many hands make light work.

Mind your own business.

Misery loves company.

Mistakes are often the best teachers.

Money isn't everything.

Monkey see monkey do.

More haste less speed.

Necessity is the mother of invention.

Never put off until tomorrow what you can do today.

No news is good news.

No pains - no gains.

Not all who own a lyre are lyre-players.

Once bitten twice shy.

One good turn deserves another.

One man's meat is another man's poison.

One swallow doesn't make a summer.

Opportunity makes thieves.

Out of sight, out of mind.

Out of the heat, into the frying pan.

Payback is a bitch.

People who live in glass houses should not throw stones.

Practice makes perfect.

Pride comes before the fall.

Promises are made to be kept.

Rats desert the sinking ship.

Slow and steady wins the race.

Speech is silver silence is gold.

Still waters run deep.

Strike while the iron is hot.

Take care of the pennies, and the pounds will look after themselves.

The last straw that breaks the camels back.

The early bird catches the worm.

The end justifies the means.

The pot calling the kettle black.

The proof of the pudding is in the eating.

There's no fool like an old fool.

That's old hat.

Tit for tat.

To blow one's own trumpet

To drop a brick

To carry coals to Newcastle.

Too many cooks spoil the broth.

To pull someone's leg

To put the pedal to the metal

To ride shotgun

What the eye does not see the heart cannot grieve over.

When the cat's away the mice will play.

Where there is a will there is a way.

You can easily fall into your own trap.

You can't change the habits of a lifetime.

You can't make an omelette without breaking eggs.

You can't study on a full stomach.

You can't teach an old dog new tricks.

When two people quarrel, a third rejoices.

+ نوشته شده در  یکشنبه یکم آذر 1388ساعت 22:11  توسط یزدانی | 

DESTINY

During a momentous battle, a Japanese general decided to attack even though his army was greatly outnumbered. He was confident they would win, but his men were filled with doubt.

On the way to the battle, they stopped at a religious shrine. After praying with the men, the general took out a coin and said, "I shall now toss this coin. If it is heads, we shall win. If it is tails we shall lose."

"Destiny will now reveal itself."

He threw the coin into the air and all watched intently as it landed. It was heads. The soldiers were so overjoyed and filled with confidence that they vigorously attacked the enemy and were victorious.

After the battle. a lieutenant remarked to the general, "No one can change destiny."

"Quite right," the general replied as he showed the lieutenant the coin, which had heads on both sides.

 

سرنوشت


 در طول نبردی مهم و سرنوشت ساز ژنرالی ژاپنی تصمیم گرفت با وجود سربازان بسیار زیادش حمله کند. مطمئن بود که پیروز می شوند اما سربازانش تردید داشتندو دودل بودند.

در مسیر میدان نبرد در معبدی مقدس توقف کردند. بعد از فریضه دعا که همراه سربازانش انجام شد ژنرال سکه ای در آورد و گفت:" سکه را به هوا پرتاب خواهم کرد اگر رو آمد، می بریم اما اگر شیر بیاید شکست خواهیم خورد".
+ نوشته شده در  جمعه بیست و نهم آبان 1388ساعت 22:9  توسط یزدانی | 

دکتر علی شریعتی

آفتاب عرفان

یک شبنم

این است آن منی که از سال های دراز ،

از نخستین روزی که به خویش چشم گشوده ام ،

بر دوش کشیده ام.

و کشیده ام

و کشیدم

و از گرماها و سرماها

و شکست ها و پیروزی ها

و سفرها و حضرها

و شادی ها و غم ها گذشتم

و گذراندم

و آوردم

و آوردم

تا در آخررینن سر منزل مسیح ،

آن را بر روی یک گلبرگ ،

در کام شکفته و تشنه ی یک گل صوفی چکاندم .

در آرزوی سر زدن آفتاب مرگ ،

شب حیات را تحمل کردم .

و آفتاب سر زد.

طلوع کرد.

اما آفتاب مرگ نبود … .

شگفتا آفتاب دیگری بودد.

آفتاب عرفان بود .

با رنگ زرینش

و گرمای آتشینش

و درخشش نازنینش

و پنجه های نرم و لطیف و نوازشگرش

و تلالؤ زیبا و خوب و گرمی بخش هر لحظه بیش ترش ،

هر لحظه بلندترش

و هر لحظه گسترده تر و فراگیر ترش !

 

بگذار!

بگذار سپیده سر زند .

چه باک که من بمیرم و شبنم فرو خشکد .

و شبگیر خاموش شود و شباهنگ گنگ گردد .

و مهتاب رنگ بازد و ستاره ی سحری باز گرددد .

و راه کهکشان بسته شود …

بگذار سپیده سر زند و پروانه به سوی آفتاب پر کشد

 

کار بی چرا

عشق تنها کار بی چرای عالم است ،

چه ، آفرینش بدان پایان می گیرد. 

معشوق من چنان لطیف است ،

که خود را به « بودن » نیالوده است ؛

که اگر جامه ی وجود بر تن می کرد ،

نه معشوق من بود.

 

تو را منتظرند

در دور دست تو را منتظرند ،

شهزاده ای ، آزاده ای اسیر قلعه ی دیوان ،

به حیله جادو در بند

گرفتار و چشم به راه که : « فریادرسی می آید » ،

و به صدای هر پایی

سر از گریبان تنهایی غمگینش بر می دارد که : « کسی می آید »

و او خریدار تو است ،

نیازمند تو است. 

 

نه مرد بازگشتم

اما بازگشتم ،

به بیراهه هم نرفتم

که من نه مرد بازگشتم !

استوار ماندن و به هر بادی به باد نرفتن

دین من است

دینی که پیروانش بسیار کم اند.

مردم همه زادگان روزند و پاسداران شب

+ نوشته شده در  جمعه بیست و نهم آبان 1388ساعت 10:8  توسط یزدانی | 

صدای پای آب


هر کجا هستم ، باشم،
آسمان مال من است.

پنجره، فکر ، هوا ، عشق ، زمین مال من است.
چه اهمیت دارد
گاه اگر می رویند
قارچهای غربت؟من نمی دانم
که چرا می گویند: اسب حیوان نجیبی است ، کبوتر زیباست.
و چرا در قفس هیچکسی کرکس نیست.
گل شبدر چه کم از لاله قرمز دارد.
چشم ها را باید شست، جور دیگر باید دید.
واژه ها را باید شست .
واژه باید خود باد، واژه باید خود باران باشد.
چترها را باید بست.
زیر باران باید رفت.
فکر را، خاطره را، زیر باران باید برد.
با همه مردم شهر ، زیر باران باید رفت.
دوست را، زیر باران باید دید.
عشق را، زیر باران باید جست.
زیر باران باید با زن خوابید.
زیر باران باید بازی کرد.
زیر باران باید چیز نوشت، حرف زد، نیلوفر کاشت
زندگی تر شدن پی در پی ،
زندگی آب تنی کردن در حوضچه “اکنون”است.

رخت ها را بکنیم:
آب در یک قدمی است.

روشنی را بچشیم.
شب یک دهکده را وزن کنیم، خواب یک آهو را.
گرمی لانه لکلک را ادراک کنیم.
روی قانون چمن پا نگذاریم.
در موستان گره ذایقه را باز کنیم.
و دهان را بگشاییم اگر ماه در آمد.
و نگوییم که شب چیز بدی است.
و نگوییم که شب تاب ندارد خبر از بینش باغ

+ نوشته شده در  چهارشنبه بیست و هفتم آبان 1388ساعت 22:31  توسط یزدانی | 
 
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